|Have you ever wondered what Emotional Intelligence (EQ) is? Why is it such a sought after skill and attribute among successful leaders of organisations today?The 3 top challenges faced by leaders today identified by a recent survey of business coaches were:
These correspond to three of the 4 components of Daniel Goleman’s definition of EQ. Today I’d like to summarise Daniel Goleman’s model so you can gain a fuller appreciation of EQ and whether there is scope for you, or someone you know, to learn more about it.
Unlike IQ, no one can summarise your EQ in a single number. We don’t have a fixed profile of emotional intelligence – it’s an ability that can change throughout life.
Think of EQ in terms of competencies in 4 different areas of personal ability:
A. Self-Awareness – knowing one’s internal states, preferences, resources and intuitions;
B. Self-Management – managing one’s internal states, impulses, and resources;
C. Social Awareness – how people handle relationships and awareness of others’ feelings, needs, and concerns;
D. Relationship Management – skill or adeptness at inducing desirable responses in others.
Nested within each of these four areas are specific, learned competencies that set the best leaders apart from the average.
Self-Awareness contains 3 competencies:
Self-Management contains 6 competencies:
Social Awareness contains 3 competencies:
Relationship Management contains 6 competencies:
The key to EQ is understanding your core emotions compared to your transient emotions. Your core emotions are driven by your temperament. You can use this as a rough personal checklist if you like. But we are not always the best judge of our own strengths and limits. A great way of getting a more complete understanding of your behaviours and what’s driving them is an extended DISC analysis. To find out more, visit my eDISC information page on my website here.
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If you want the best appraisal of your own abilities within your organisation, I recommend getting a 360-degree review based on this EQ competency list, and then formal coaching to guide and help you gain more strength in the areas you identify as needing attention.
It’s never too late to get better at EQ. As a transformational business coach I focus my leadership coaching on the development of EQ ingredients as crucial steps in the personal and leadership development journey.
Should you or someone in your network need assistance in any aspects of EQ, including more information on eDISC or to implement a 360 degree review, please get in touch.